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Codependency

Living around another person: controlling, rescuing, forgetting yourself. Very common in families affected by addiction.

If it’s for you

If it’s for someone you love

You didn’t cause it, you can’t control it and you can’t cure it. What you can do is take care of yourself, and there are groups for that too. There’s no family group specific to this addiction; these welcome family members of any addiction.

Your first step, today

  1. Join a meeting. It can be online, right now: CoDA https://coda.org (opens in a new tab). Or see all online meetings.
  2. Tell one person you trust. Just one is enough.
  3. If it’s an emergency, don’t wait: urgent help.

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